If a friend misses your birthday - do you let that upset you - or should you love the friend unconditionally and accept their faults along with their good qualities?
This is what I am looking for- someone to wrap their arms around me- comfort me, tell me everything will be ok and make me smile from ear to ear-
"Misfortne shows those who are not really friends" - Aristotle
Do you have friends who are always there when there's a party going on- or it's the weekend and you have a cottage? - or you want to do something you love- and don't want to do it alone- so you call someone you know who will want to do it too? There's a big difference between these people and someone who can sense when you've had a bad day and ask how you are- and then listen. Friends are people you can trust to help you out- or will give you advice that you know comes from the heart- even if you do not want to hear it. A Real Friend knows that friendship is a 2-way street, that both must help and support, both must make an effort, but can share the wonder that is friendship [unconditional love].
So here's a question-
"What do you do IF you feel you have a friend you cannot always count on- or who can make you feel alone or who is a friend when it is convenient to them. What then? People do not easily change- so do you hope things will get better or do you move on and cherish what you did enjoy from the friendship? Comments please.
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To have awesome friends, you must be an awesome friend. Forgiveness is the key. We all make mistakes.
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